Vibrators have become a more mainstream idea in the last ten years. In fact, “while 68 percent of those ages 18 to 30 own dildos, 71 percent of people over 40 own them.” (See Bustle.com) Being a woman over 50, I find this statistic in alignment with my own experience. In fact, I’ve seen the topic of sex and sexuality become more of a fascination in the media than in previous generations, which I am sure all of you would agree with. No matter what you may consider positive or negative about this surge, the silver lining is that it is more acceptable for women to purchase and use a vibrator.

For myself, after my divorce over ten years ago, I attended my first sex-toy party hosted by my sister and mother. (Yes, you read that correctly, my sister and my mother☺) Besides being a super fun and cool event that I will always remember, I purchased my very first dildo. The host of the party also sold a dildo that you could stick to the wall and, you know, do stuff. Since that time, I have owned vibrators and taken a keen interest in maintaining a playful and energetic sex life.

Because of this, when Vush Stimulation approached me about creating content for them, I was excited to address this topic on my channel! Their platform is to #breakthestigma around sexual pleasure and sexual health for women, something I am keen to do. Not only that, a recurring theme on The Beauty Shaman is that the key to women’s empowerment is self-love and self-care, including sexual self-pleasure! If over 70% of you own a vibrator as the above statistic conveys, then I think you will find The Empress to be a wonderful addition to your self-care activities.

The Empress operates with a suction technology that you use directly on your clitoris to bring you to orgasm. In a recent study by the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, they found that, “nearly 37 percent of American women required clitoral stimulation to experience orgasm, compared with 18 percent of women who said that vaginal penetration alone was enough to come.”  This lovely fact makes this particular toy even more valuable. Plus, you can use The Empress in conjunction with a partner or another toy for greater pleasure. It is small, lightweight, and fits nicely into your purse to be available as needed. Here are some other important facts about The Empress:

8 Levels of settings

Waterproof

Silent design (for ultimate privacy)

USB rechargeable

Discreet and FREE Global shipping

6-month warranty

Vacuum technology

In my own experimentation with the toy, I have found it to be capable of delivering fast and powerful orgasms with its eight levels of intensity. My preference is to take things a little slower, so I usually set it on number five or six to allow the orgasm to build steam. Whatever setting you chose to set the vibrator functions; you will find it easy to use and greatly beneficial in the bedroom to bring you to orgasm.

Visit Vush Stimulation for more information, and use the code SHAMAN for 65% off. (Yes, you read that correctly, 65% off!) Remember that the key to your sense of power in this world is to take excellent care of yourself both inside and outside, and The Empress is here to help.